First Impressions Count

So I have been researching and thinking about that first day. The first day a child will be welcomed into our home for a short period or longer period. What are some of the key things I need to do that first day? I tried to put myself in the place of that child- how awkward they will feel, unwelcome and uncomfortable, scared, unsure... I think the most critical thing is to try and go outside and greet them as they are getting out of the car, so they don't have that walk up to front door waiting and wondering what we will be like. Another key is the greeting,trying to make them feel comfortable but acknowleding their feelings - something along the lines of "We are so glad that you are coming to live in our home. I am sure you feel uncomfortable and maybe wish that you were elsewhere, but we are going to do everything we can to make you feel welcome and enjoy your time here until you go back home. Lets go inside and meet everyone." Tour of the house, show them where things are in the kitchen. Drinks in the fridge- with any caveats- help yourself to drinks anytime. Do you drink milk? I think milk is healthier so try and choose that more often than juice. Brief discussion about food likes- ie top 2 favorite foods, top 2 favorite meals. Time to unpack. Discussion about house rules and communication. What do they need right away (ie clothes, toothbrush) Maybe a walk with the dog to unwind and get to know each other in a low pressure environment. Those are my initial thoughts and obviously needs to be adjusted to the age and personality of the child.